Infatuation

Real strong word .... but very common amongst teenagers really.

I was victim to proportions of such sort myself , along with some of my friends.
When college started i met this ( i mean saw ) one girl , and thought that she looked cute.
That's the stepping stone to infatuation

Lesson no 1 : NEVER THINK A GIRL IS CUTE UNLESS U KNO HER WELL PERSONALLY : Lest u become subject to haunting thoughts about that girl

Then another of my friend introduced me to one of his classmate , then i seemed to think , nice girl , wonder what kinda girl frnd she would make.

Statutory warning : Never think like that

one of the best examples Samrat and Gunjan , varied sorts of college falling in love with each other ( lame)

Lesson number 2 : NEVER THINK WHAT KINDA GIRL FRIEND A GIRL WOULD MAKE : cause trust me you don't want to get tied down to girlfriends and commitment and all


One of my friends , had a crush on this one girl , well no harm in taking names now is there
( Abhilash and let the girl remain confidential for now )
I saw how he struggled to get her . The level of desperation , fueling his mind with adrenaline and thus causing his downfall because that girl who was once his friend doesn't even sleep facing his direction of late

Lesson number 3 : NEVER GO BEHIND GIRL YOU HAVE JUST MET : its Ok if they accept but if they don't you are simply losing one more likely friend prospect.

Then as the sands of time counted down , i got to know the girl i was talking about first a little better , and came across the fact that she was supposedly commited , or was she?
(let us stop here lest the information becomes too obvious) ,
I learnt of sorts that is better to not hit on a commited girl even though you are aquainted to her boyfriend because that prospect can be quite demeaning now wont it?
There arises a moral conflict in looking at your friends girl friend as more than just a friend

Lesson number 4 : NEVER CRUSH ON A COMMITED WOMEN : lest you get beaten up by her boyfriend or your conscience

Then the dude broke up with her , or maybe she broke up with him , either way , I thought my chances got better , and started trying on her , but my conscience should kick in at the right moment . I was dared to say something to her , which i did but the perverts interpretted it quite differently . I started to dream about her ......... Then i started meditating to clear my dreams of such unnecessary distractions .... yes unnecessary indeed . Then Abhi started hitting on her and the girls ex - boy friend started hitting on the other girl ........ Strange

Lesson number 5 : NEVER , I REPEAT , NEVER THINK THAT YOU CAN GET A GIRL : even if you do think limited lest it disturb your social life or worse your academic life woooo!!!