Sunday, February 14, 2010

Valentine's day....

The most awaited day of the year for most young teenagers . The romance that fills the air the active discussions .... the goof ups . the proposals the refusals .... and for those lonely nerds just another day......

Is valentine's day about love or lust ... i think most people have lost their interest in falling in love ... Mostly fearing relationship , which will eventually catch up and tie them down to their base fawning . All these people going around with bouquets and boxes of chocolates represent cliche .

The activities are repititive and monotonous ... and from among these somber set of heavily infatuated ecstatic individuals ... one may be able to spot one true lover ... and he too has his doubts.....

They say love is a very gentle , tendre emotion ....... i wouldn't kno ..... cause i find it to appalling to fall in love without first understanding the so called intricate and more fragile theories of emotion ........

Well falling in love is one thing and thinking you are in love is quite another ....
Being a man of purely scientific temper ..... this may lead me to ask .. what physiological or psychological changes can we observe apart from those oft repeated plethora of seemingly outcast symptoms .... as absence of hunger ... occupied mind ..(not certain about wat) ..... sleeplessness ( these symptoms may also signify chronic diarrhoea or more rather viral fever.)

Then wat is it that this so called "Love" has different from any other emotion ........ how do we sense it .... do we actually sense it ? or have we lost the sensation? these and other question often plague the minds of those with systematic education and also those without it.

It is hard for those to understand who are not in love .... yet harder for those who are......

many a time and oft have we not heard people say that love is most important factor in life ..... well strictly speaking a child who is brought up in a socially active environment has more chances of failing the next tests than those who are fraught with uncertainty and for those who have been brought up mechanically like yr typical next door neighbor who does not come out of his room except while leaving for college. But better yet these people are so focused that they inevitable shine in the academic field .... INEVITABLY ......
So wat is love then .... an absolute necessity or a mere prereqisite ?
Guess its for time to answer and thence shell we understand its real meaning or will we?

4 comments:

NASAthegreat said...

Nice one dude but I feel the "chronic diarrhoea and viral fever"part is a li'l over-exaggerated..com'mon don't act lyk u've never experinced it..i bet u'd have!

Sharan said...

Firstly, i find a new dimension in your writing,in this post synchronized with the usual inquisitive character that is always synonymous with your posts, and that would be the unintentional( or intentional, i do not know) addition of dry humour( the viral fever part-if that wasnt meant to be humourous, ignore this comment).....but somehow it doesn't blend with your character....but still upto to the mark..........well done love guru!

Sujith said...

i have to disagree with most of your notions buddy..i do not claim yuou are mistaken but only this, that my viion of love differs radically from yours

relationships do not tie u down to your base fawning unless ofcourse u do not learn to feed upon the beauty of the relationship indulge in the ecstacy it offers by rejuvenating your senses

a true lover never has doubts!if he does he is not true!(they are actually contradictory terms)

i must compliment you for making bold statements criticizing the symptoms of love and courage to face the heat that it might evoke.and before u were "exempt" u have often felt the surge of fervent emotions that infatuation creates in the mind...love only makes you feel these emotions at a deeper level...closer to your soul

INEVITABLY??that's a strong word!for all you kno, your neighbour might be sleeping indoor!

yes love is a an absolutely necessity for all its splendours and wonders for all its beauties and excitement and most of all for the one your love! love is eternal!

Sujith said...

and amit, i think we shud support each other's blogs instead of criticising...chk out my blog i have added the blogs of evry1 i follow